removed from your mind, so as to convince you that no evil has happened to those you loved, your grief will have been very much lessened. For there will then only be left that single strain of sorrow which will not be concerned with them, but will have reference to yourself alone: in regard to which it is not consonant with a high character and wisdom such as you have displayed from boyhood, to show excessive sorrow for a misfortune that has befallen you, when it does not at all involve misery or evil to those whom you have loved. In fact, the qualities you have displayed both in private and public business entail the necessity of preserving your dignity and supporting your character for consistency. For that which length of time is sure to bring us of itself—which removes the bitterest sorrows by the natural process of decay—we ought to anticipate by reflexion and wisdom. Why, if there never was a woman so weak-minded on the death of her children, as not sooner or later to put a period to her mourning, certainly we men ought to anticipate by reflexion what lapse of time is sure to bring, and not to wait for a cure from time, when we can have it on the spot from reason. If I have done you any good by this letter, I think that I have accomplished a desirable object: but if by chance it has been of no avail, I hold that I have done the duty of one who wishes you all that is best and loves you very dearly. Such a one I would have you think that I have been, and believe that I shall be to you in the future.
DXXVIII (F XIII, 77)
TO P. SULPICIUS RUFUS[1] (IN ILLYRICUM)
Rome (Autumn)
Marcus Cicero sends warmest greeting to Publius Sulpicius,
imperator. Though in these times it is not myB. Afr. 10, it appears that Vatinius and Sulpicius had
been in joint command of Cæsar's fleet before B.C. 46, but had then
ceased to be so. Vatinius had been engaged in B.C. 48-47 in Illyricum
against Octavius, and in B.C. 45 was again in command in the same]*
- ↑ From [Cæs.
