The Catholic Prayer Book and Manual of Meditations/Sacrament of Matrimony
SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY.
ST. PAUL compares the union which should exist between the married couple, to that which exists between Christ and His Church.
So holy a union should never be entered on in a light and inconsiderate manner, for it is a tie which only the death of one of the parties can dissolve. Those who are about to be married, in order to receive the fruit of the sacrament, must also be in the state of grace, that is, free from mortal sin. To get married without previously purifying the conscience by confession of every mortal sin that burdened it, would of itself be a grievous sin. A pure intention is also of great consequence. There are three lawful ends, such as God had in the institution of marriage, viz.: to be a mutual help to each other; to have children who may serve God; and to prevent incontinence.
What a beautiful example St. Teresa gives. She tells of a lady who wished to be married for no other end, than that after she was dead there should be some one left on earth to glorify God in her place.
PRAYER.
ADORABLE Heart of Jesus. conform all my desires to your own. Enable me, my God, to please thee. It is all my desire. Sweet Virgin Mother! you were present at the marriage feast, and out of the abundance of your compassionate heart, your beautiful lips uttered the words, “They have no wine.” Be present, dear Lady, at my marriage. You know what I have not; and what you ask for, you receive. One word for me, sweet mother, and your gracious presence! Dear spouse of our Lady, St. Joseph, companion and solace of Mary, pray for me.