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OF FRIENDSHIP
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which passions of all kinds do cause and induce. We know diseases of stoppings and suffocations are the most dangerous in the body; and it is not much otherwise in the mind; you may take sarza[1] to open the liver, steel to open the spleen, flower of sulphur[2] for the lungs, castoreum[3] for the brain; but no receipt openeth the heart, but a true friend; to whom you may impart griefs, joys, fears, hopes, suspicions, counsels, and whatsoever lieth upon the heart to oppress it, in a kind of civil shrift or confession.

It is a strange thing to observe how high a rate great kings and monarchs do set upon this fruit of friendship whereof we speak: so great, as they purchase it many times at the hazard of their own safety and greatness. For princes, in regard of the distance of their fortune from that of their subjects and servants, cannot gather this fruit, except (to make themselves capable thereof) they raise some persons to be as it were companions and almost equals to themselves, which many times sorteth to inconvenience. The modern languages give unto such persons the name of favourites, or privadoes;[4] as if it were matter of grace, or conversation. But the Roman name attaineth the true use and cause thereof, naming them participes curarum;[5] for it is that which tieth the knot. And we see plainly that this hath been done, not by weak and passionate

  1. Sarza. Sarsaparilla.
  2. Flower of sulphur. A yellow powder formed by condensing the vapor of sulphur.
  3. Castoreum. A secretion of the beaver formerly of high repute in medicine.
  4. Privado. Spanish word, a private or intimate friend.
  5. Sharers of cares, partners in sorrows.