contrary, I think I see sense in the one, and sentiments in the other. This persuasion is the only motive of my present affection; which will either increase or diminish, according to your merit or demerit. If you have the knowledge, the honor, and the probity which you may have, the marks and warmth of my affection shall amply reward them. [Dec. 18, 1747.]
Fashionable Ladies.—The company of women
of fashion will improve your manners, though not
your understanding; and that complaisance and
politeness, which are so useful in men's company,
can only be acquired in women's. [Dec. 29, 1747.]
Talent and Breeding.—Remember always,
what I have told you a thousand times, that all the
talents in the world will want all their lustre, and
some part of their use too, if they are not adorned
with that easy good breeding, that engaging manner,
and those graces which seduce and prepossess people
in your favor at first sight. A proper care of
your person is by no means to be neglected; always
extremely clean; upon proper occasions, fine. Your
carriage genteel, and your motions graceful. Take
particular care of your manner and address, when
you present yourself in company. Let them be
respectful without meanness, easy without too much
