of living in the great world must be gallant, polite, and attentive to please the women. They have from the weakness of men, more or less influence in all courts; they absolutely stamp every man's character in the beau monde, and make it either current, or cry it down, and stop it in payments. It is, therefore, absolutely necessary to manage, please, and flatter them; and never to discover the least marks of contempt, which is what they never forgive; but in this they are not singular, for it is the same with men; who will much sooner forgive an injustice than an insult. [Same date.]
Contempt.—Every man is not ambitious, or covetous,
or passionate; but every man has pride
enough in his composition to feel and resent the
least slight and contempt. Remember, therefore,
most carefully to conceal your contempt, however
just, wherever you would not make an implacable
enemy. Men are much more unwilling to have their
weaknesses and their imperfections known, than
their crimes; and, if you hint to a man that you
think him silly, ignorant or even ill bred or awkward,
he will hate you more and longer than if you
tell him, plainly, that you think him a rogue. Never
yield to that temptation, which, to most young men,
is very strong, of exposing other people's weak-
