teased into a thing; but, in general, all are to be brought into it at last, if skilfully applied to, properly managed, and indefatigably attacked in their several weak places. The time should likewise be judiciously chosen: every man has his mollia tempora, but that is far from being all day long; and you would choose your time very ill, if you applied to a man about one business, when his head was full of another, or when his heart was full of grief, anger, or any other disagreeable sentiments. [Same date.]
Judge of Others by Yourself.—In order to
judge of the inside of others, study your own; for
men in general are very much alike; and though one
has one prevailing passion, and another has another,
yet their operations are much the same; and whatever
engages or disgusts, pleases or offends you, in
others, will, mutatis mutandis, engage, disgust,
please, or offend others, in you. [Same date.]
Smart Sayings.—The temptation of saying a
smart and witty thing, or bon mot, and the malicious
applause with which it is commonly received, have
made people who can say them, and, still oftener,
people who think they can, but cannot and yet try,
more enemies, and implacable ones too, than any
one other thing that I know of. When such things,
