- taire.[1] It is very proper and decent to dance well;
but then you must dance only at balls and places of entertainment; for you would be reckoned a fool if you were to dance at church or at a funeral. I hope, by these examples, you understand the meaning of the word decency, which in French is bienséance; in Latin, decorum; and in Greek, [Greek: prepon]. Cicero says of it, Sic hoc decorum quod elucet in vitâ, movet approbationem earum quibuscum vivatur, ordine et constantiâ, et moderatione dictorum omnium atque factorum: by which you see how necessary decency is to gain the approbation of mankind. And, as I am sure you desire to gain Mr. Maittaire's approbation, without which you will never have mine, I dare say you will mind and give attention to whatever he says to you, and behave yourself seriously and decently while you are with him; afterward play, run, and jump as much as ever you please. [July 24, 1739.]
The Art of Speaking.—You cannot but be convinced
that a man who speaks and writes with elegance
and grace; who makes choice of good words,
and adorns and embellishes the subject upon which
he either speaks or writes, will persuade better, and
succeed more easily in obtaining what he wishes,
than a man who does not explain himself clearly;
- ↑ Young Mr. Stanhope's tutor.
