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FRIENDSHIP.


“Friendly love perfecteth mankind.”
Bacon.


“To have found favor in thy sight
 Will still remain
A river of thought, that full of light
 Divides the plain.”
Milnes.


“Cui potest vita esse vitalis, (ut ait Ennius,) quæ non in amici mutatà benevolentiá requiescat?”—Cicero.




It was while living at Cambridge that Margaret commenced several of those friendships which lasted through her life, and which were the channels for so large a part of her spiritual activity. In giving some account of her in these relations, there is only the alternative of a prudent reserve which omits whatever is liable to be misunderstood, or a frank utterance which confides in the good sense and right feeling of the reader. By the last course, we run the risk of allowing our friend to be misunderstood; but by the first we make it certain that the most important part of her character shall not be understood at all. I have, therefore, thought it best to follow, as far as I can, her own ideas on this subject, which I find in two of her letters to myself. The first is dated, Groton, Jan. 8th, 1839. I was at that time editing a theological and literary magazine, in the West, and this letter was