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HINTS
ON
GOOD MANNERS.
GOOD MANNERS is the art of making every reasonable person in the company easy, and to be easy ourselves.
What passes for good manners in the world, generally produces quite contrary effects.
Many persons of both sexes, whom I have known, and who passed for well-bred in their own, and the world's opinion, are the most troublesome in company to others and themselves.
Nothing is so great an instance of ill-manners as flattery. If you flatter all the company, you please none, if you flatter only one or two, you affront the rest.
Flattery is the worst and falsest way of showing our esteem.
Where the company meets, I am confident the few reasonable persons are every minute tempted to curse the man or woman among them, who endeavours to be most distinguished for their good manners.
A man of sense would rather fast till night, than dine at some tables, where the lady of the house is
