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furniture, fine pictures, sweet linen, beautiful flowers, and home delicates of her own personal make or supervision, is becoming well-nigh obsolete. "It is such a bore being at home!" is quite an ordinary phrase with the gawk-girl of the present day, who has no idea of the value of rest as an aid to beauty, or of the healthful and strengthening influences of a quiet and well-cultivated mind, and who has made herself what is sometimes casually termed a "sight" by her skill at hockey, her speed in cycling, and her general "rushing about," in order to get anywhere away from the detested "home." The mother of a family now aspires to seem as young as her daughters, and among the vanishing graces of society may be noted the grace of old age. Nobody is old nowadays. Men of sixty wed girls of sixteen, women of fifty lead boys of twenty to the sacrificial altar. Such things are repulsive, abominable and unnatural, but they are done every day, and a certain "social set," smirk the usual conventional hypocritical approval, few having the courage to protest against what they must inwardly recognize as both outrageous and indecent. The real "old" lady, the real "old" gentleman will soon be counted among the "rare and curious" specimens of the race. The mother who was not "married at sixteen," will ere long be a remarkable prodigy, and the paterfamilias who never explains that he "made an unfortunate marriage when quite a boy," will rank beside her as a companion phenomenon. We have only to scan the pages of those periodicals which cater specially for fashionable folk, to see what a frantic dread of age pervades all classes